Genesis paints the picture of God creating woman from man, leading to the profound declaration of "one flesh." This unity isn't passive. It involves active pursuit, a "clinging" as described in Psalm 63:8, and a persistent, affectionate drive.
Practical Steps to Rekindle the Spark:
Speak Words of Affirmation:
Hebrews 3:13 encourages daily encouragement. Men, your wives need to hear, "Do you love me today?" Ladies, your husbands need to hear, "Do you believe in me today?"
If you have a good thought about your spouse, voice it.
Act on Loving Impulses:
James 4:17 reminds us that knowing the good we should do and not doing it is sin.
Don't let special moments pass by. If you have a loving impulse, act on it.
Be the Change You Want to See:
Continuing the same behaviors that led to marital difficulties will only perpetuate those problems.
To recapture the joy of the past, return to the actions that fostered it. Revelation 2:5 calls for remembering, repenting, and returning to "the things you did at first. If you need help, seek it out.
Key Takeaway:
A strong marriage requires intentional, ongoing pursuit. It's about speaking words of affirmation, acting on loving impulses, and being willing to change. If your marriage has lost its spark, remember the foundation of unity and actively pursue your spouse with affection and devotion. And if needed seek outside help.